Jack Thomas Dexter was born to Jack and Mary Jane Dexter on September 15,1934 and was raised in Oakland, CA along with his sister, Joan. On April 9, 2024, our beautiful father passed peacefully at his home with family by his side. The Dexter family will forever be grateful to the wonderful staff at Carefield Assisted Living, and to the Vitas Hospice team. Thank you for your care, kindness and friendship these past two years.
While working at Oakland’s Fairfax Theater, he met his soulmate, Marlene Faye Lorette. They married on September 5, 1953 and celebrated 54 years of marriage, until her sudden passing in 2007.
Jack was a proud veteran of the U.S. Army. He and his young bride were stationed on the East Coast and resided in Richmond, Virginia. Next move would be back to the Bay Area, where they settled into Castro Valley, raised their four children, and resided 62 years.
Jack’s family was the center of his world. With a huge heart, his dedication and devotion never wavered. Family vacations and frequent weekend getaways were spent primarily camping, boating and in nature, often including extended family and treasured friends. Later in life he and Marlene traveled more extensively and Jack would often talk about his favorite train travel experience to Zermatt, Switzerland.
Jack demonstrated a strong work ethic from a very young age. After 33 years of service with RJ Reynolds, he moved on to form a successful business with Marlene, which enabled many getaways to the Lake Tahoe area. Jack’s caring heart eventually led him to Durham Transportation where he assisted children with disabilities and their families, forming many special bonds.
Jack was deeply spiritual and a devout Catholic. He was a member of Our Lady of Grace Church where he served as parish volunteer for decades. Additionally, he was active with the Castro Valley Little League, helping establish a new playing field and needed out buildings, and serving as league President. He also volunteered at Eden Hospital’s weekly senior dinners; was a member of the Elks and CV Lions Clubs; and was a proud volunteer at local Special Olympic events.
Jack had a tremendous love of animals, both pets and wildlife. His backyard was certified as a Wildlife Habitat Sanctuary. He also shared a fondness for East Enders (with special friend, Chrissy), enjoyed trains, coin collecting, and NASCAR.
Jack is survived by his children: Dan (Sophia), Patty (Dennis), Margie (Mike), and Maryanne (Craig); grandchildren: Jeanine, Melissa, Rachel, Katie, Megan, Becca, Samantha, and Jeffrey; and eight great grandchildren, (with two more on the way!). He is also survived by his dear nieces, Deanne Lorette and Linda Pires; and nephews, Ron Lorette, Ted Lorette and James Osborne, all of whom he cherished deeply.
A private service will be held.
In Jack’s memory, donations may be made to: Special Olympics, The American Lung Association, or your favorite charity.
